Therapy with Couples + Pairs

I am extensively trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), the most empirically validated method for restoring the connection between pairs. I am also a Certified Sex-Therapy-Informed Professional, trained in methods for restoring and improving sexual intimacy.


Couples come to me when they are struggling to navigate…

  • Miscommunications and/or painful fights

  • Dissatisfaction with emotional intimacy

  • Dissatisfaction with their sex-lives

  • Finances: making/sharing/managing money

  • Infidelity, affairs, betrayals

  • Getting engaged or married

  • Getting separated or divorced

  • Differences in socializing/friendships

  • Blending families

  • Relationships with challenging family members

  • Parenting decisions

  • Co-parenting

  • Household management

  • Consensual Non-Monogamy: the choices of opening/closing the relationship, or changing the structure or agreements

I help couples…

  • Get unstuck from repeating patterns of arguing or silent distancing that cause frustration and pain

  • Make sense of the strong emotions and needs that can surprise both of you in the relationship

  • Repair current and past relationship injuries (including infidelity + betrayals) and understand how to move forward

  • Change how you communicate so you can really open up to each other with your true feelings and wishes

  • Increase feelings of trust and intimacy, playfulness, and fun

  • Work through challenges in sex and sexuality and improve your sex-life

  • Learn practices that will allow you to have connected conversations at home without me

Sculpture by Alexander Milov at Burning Man 2015; Photo by Andrew Miller

Interested? Reach out!

I support both heterosexual and queer couples, monogamous couples, and couples who are exploring or practicing non-monogamy. I also support coworkers, roommates, best-friends, siblings, and parents and their children.

“The strongest among us are those who can reach for others.”

— Dr. Sue Johnson